DOM / SUB COACHING

Mastering Power, Surrender, and Play

Dom/Sub coaching is not about tricks or theatrics—it’s about answering the inner call to step fully into your role. Whether that role is to lead with confidence or to surrender with grace, this work gives you the structure and guidance to embody it with power, clarity, and integrity.

In our sessions, you’ll discover how to claim your desires, communicate them without shame, and turn power dynamics into a source of intimacy and transformation. You’ll learn how to hold space that inspires trust, or how to let go into surrender without fear. This is not just play—it’s a path. A path into deeper connection, stronger presence, and a more authentic you. If you feel the call to explore dominance or submission, this work will give you the tools, the mindset, and the courage to step into it fully.

Weekend Trainings
Upcoming Retreats
Private Sessions
Private Coaching

HEARTFUL WEEKEND TRAININGS by BOUNDXBEYOND

BoundxBeyond offers a variety of theme-based weekend trainings including a 3-day immersive training covering the foundations of dominance and submission in a conscious, heartful way.

  • Day 1 — Self-Work & Embodiment: Explore your inner landscape, values, and blocks. Anchor clarity, safety, and integrity as Dom or Sub.

  • Day 2 — Methodology: Frameworks for negotiation, boundaries, communication, archetypes, postures and practical tools for scene creation and play.

  • Day 3 — Style: Embody your unique expression, language, and presence in D/s dynamics.

This journey is designed for those who feel the inner calling to step fully into their role. Whether you want to lead with confidence or surrender with trust, this training will give you the tools and lived practice to embody it with authenticity.

 More information on the BoundxBeyond website

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Join Us In Mexico For Our HEARTFUL BDSM Retreat 2026!

The Heartful BDSM Retreat is a five-day immersion into the art of power and surrender—where hypnosis, ropes, and ritual weave together to create experiences that are as transformative as they are beautiful. Here, BDSM is not reduced to mechanics but elevated into an art form. Through archetypal embodiment, you will step into roles that awaken hidden parts of yourself, discovering the poetry of dominance and the grace of surrender. Ropes become more than tools—they become lines of connection, brushstrokes of intimacy drawn on the body. Hypnosis opens the doorway to imagination and trance, where desire meets the unconscious. Ritual turns play into magic, and celebration anchors it all into joy.

This retreat is for those who feel the call to create—not just to practice techniques, but to shape experiences that carry depth, beauty, and soul. It is a space where power becomes presence, intimacy becomes art, and every encounter becomes a living celebration.

Investment: €3,333

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PRIVATE BDSM SESSIONS

Exploring BDSM and Kink Safely

For those curious about BDSM and kink, safety and consent are paramount.

These practices can be powerful tools for self-expression, trust-building, and exploring desires, but they require clear communication and boundaries.

In my sessions, I provide a safe and judgment-free space to:

  • Understand the principles of consent and negotiation.

  • Explore your boundaries and desires without fear of judgment.

  • Learn techniques to integrate BDSM and kink practices mindfully and safely.

 

Whether you’re a beginner or experienced, my goal is to help you navigate these realms with confidence and respect for yourself and your partner.

The Art of Shibari

Shibari, the Japanese art of rope bondage, is more than a visual spectacle. It’s a profound practice of connection, trust, and creativity. In my workshops and sessions, I guide participants through the principles of Shibari, ensuring safety, comfort, and mutual respect.

  • Connection: Shibari fosters a deep sense of trust and vulnerability between partners.

  • Creativity: Explore the artistic and expressive potential of rope work.

  • Mindfulness: Embrace the present moment through intentional touch and movement.

Whether you’re a beginner or have prior experience, I provide personalized guidance tailored to your level and desires.

Erotic Hypnosis

As a Master Hypnotherapist and founder of the Orgasmic Hypnosis Method, I have become a reference in the world of Erotic Hypnosis—guiding people into states where the mind, body, and erotic energy merge into something truly extraordinary.

In my D/S and sexual embodiment sessions, hypnosis becomes a silent conductor—shaping your inner world as much as your outer experience. While the ropes bind your body, my words can bind your thoughts. While my hands guide your movements, my voice guides your imagination. The interplay creates a heightened state where every sensation is magnified, every instruction sinks deeper, and surrender becomes not just physical, but mental and emotional.

Hypnosis allows us to:

  • Amplify Sensation: Turn a feather-light touch into waves of pleasure.

  • Deepen Surrender: Let go of resistance and drop into an effortless flow of obedience, trust, and receptivity.

  • Explore Fantasy Safely: Experience bold, even taboo scenarios in the mind while your body rests in safety.

  • Condition Erotic Responses: Anchor arousal to words, looks, or gestures, so the D/S dynamic extends beyond the session.

  • Merge Ritual & Trance: Bring ceremony into the psyche, allowing rope patterns, rituals, and commands to take on symbolic power.

The fusion of erotic hypnosis with D/S and Shibari transforms the session into a full-spectrum art of domination and surrender—where mind control meets body art, and the line between fantasy and reality becomes deliciously blurred.

 
 
 

"It feels intimidating and scary"

It’s natural to look at this content and feel a little intimidated—that’s part of the journey. This work is about discovering your edges, meeting your triggers, and expanding your limits in a "safe" and intentional space.
My role as a Dom isn’t to provoke for the sake of provocation—it’s to guide you into facing those edges with courage, curiosity, and desire, so you can rise into your fullest pleasure and power - Gradually. There is no rush.


Letters Of Appreciation from Devoted Submissives

 

Dear Sir,

Thank you for the time we spent together yesterday. Allowing your voice to guide me into deeper and deeper states of unleashed pleasure was a profound lesson in surrender. Your voice cornered my mind so completely, it was literally obliterated, until there was nothing left for anything but obedience to your commands, and the sheer amount of sexual energy that coursed through me in response. Thank you Sir, for every single word that came from your lips that brought me into that state. Thank you for the flogging. For taking care of me in the most vulnerable position; ass up, head down, arms out-stretched. Encouraging me to stay strong even as you delivered the blows. Thank you for your expertise, for sometimes drawing them out from one to the other so that the anticipation at times, was almost unbearable. What happened at the end of all the exquisite pain I can barely describe, the tenderness and the space you gave me to feel, thank you for seeing me. Thank you for suspending me completely in the ropes for the first time. I hope it brings you pleasure, dear Sir, to see me tied. Thank you for the slow untying and for guiding the ropes to glide over my nipples, for knowing how my body lights up in pleasure. Thank you for holding me with your breath at the end, for regulating my system, and for making me read the Death card out loud to you. There was magic in those words.

In Devotion,
T.

 

Dear Sir,

Thank you for our beautiful session yesterday. Surrendering to your expert guidance and following your commands made me feel raw and vulnerable but all there was for me to do was trust you. Thank you for all the attention you gave to me, your words and your touch were exquisite in moments. Thank you for taking me into places I have never dared touch into before, feeling the sweet bliss in between the edges that you led me to was divine. Thank you so much for all the pleasure that you poured into my system, for making me ask for what I wanted even though it felt almost impossible to speak it out loud. Thank you for the firm touch you graced my body with after you released me from the ropes, it helped me to ground and my system to calm down. Thank you for telling me to sit on the floor by your side near the end of our session and read a poem out loud to you. I felt joy to see your face after I read it, to know that it brought you pleasure to hear my voice speak those words. Thank you for taking the photos of me and for telling me they are beautiful, I am beautiful. I am taking them with me on my trip so that I can remind myself of that.

Most of all, thank you for bringing your heart, I could not do this any other way.

T.

 

My Dearest Sir,

They say a rope is only as strong as the knot that binds it —
and I suspect the same is true of me.
Under your hands, I am no longer scattered silk;
I am woven into something deliberate,
a tapestry of surrender and defiance,
pulled snug but never strangled.

You have this… art.
The art of unmaking me just enough
that I remember what I’m made of.
The art of holding me so firmly
that my own strength dares to bloom in the gaps between your fingers.
I am an orchestra of raw nerves,
and you are the conductor who knows when to demand crescendo
and when to let me tremble on a single, breathless note.

Sometimes, you are the storm
sometimes, the lighthouse.
Either way, you find me.
And though I may roll my eyes at your wicked grin,
we both know I’m already melting beneath it.

This letter is my bow, my curtsey, my whispered "thank you"
for the bruises that feel like poetry,
the rules that taste like freedom,
and the trust that is the truest luxury I’ve ever known.

Yours in shameless devotion
(and occasional bratty rebellion),

Your ever-grateful, ever-willing muse
A.

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HEARTFUL PRIVATE BDSM COACHING

For men and women seeking guidance in the realms of sexuality, dominance & submission dynamics, and embodied leadership in every area of life, I offer personalized Coaching programs and sessions.

These journeys are for those ready to transform not just their intimate life, but their relationship with power, money, health, business, and purpose. Each program is custom-tailored to your unique needs, intentions, and personality—designed to support your growth on all levels: mental, emotional, energetic, erotic, and practical.

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